Hey, I know how you feel. Being a level 56 I get several host quits a day. I consider getting to host my own game as a blessing.
But personally, I like being level 56. It removes the need to succeed and to win, because you used to be fighting for the XP, but since that doesn't matter at that level you can just play for fun. If you lose at level 56, you lose. If you lose at level 53, you frustratingly lose a lot of XP that you could have gotten.
IDK, I just feel like at this level, there's no longer as much pressure as there was. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.