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    My family is so fricken unfair, and i just despise them. For example I was staying at my sisters (she's 22)today for a while. My dad was supposed to come pick me up but instead he decided to go to the bar. So I had to get my mom to pick me up after her work. When I went home i fed calfs which takes about half an hour all by myself. When i get inside I always get a really bad vibe. I would be having the best day of my life but as soon as I walk into my house i get really mad and greeted like this."Guess what you get to do clean your calfs pen of all the poop and guess what were doing tomorrow...cleaning the house!"

    My dad and my brother was SUPPOSED to make me supper but of course they never so I had to make pizza in the last seconds. Being really mad by now they decide their gonna have some. I was furious. Now I had to bring in wood but it was my bro's turn to go outside too fill up the wood thing and i just bring it in. But him being the prick he is. He decided he didnt want too and my mom not doing anything about it. I get so furious so I go out in the freezing cold. (I live in canada). Fill it up even though I made him supper which I do A LOT! So I storm downstairs and now i only have time to post this before i have to sleep. Got school tomorrow.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Marisa~
    Does this make me a bad person? Does anyone else experience this?
    no, it makes you bi-polar and in need of a mood stabilizer

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    No, it doesn't make you a bad person; it makes you human. Society has taught us that hate is bad, no matter what someone does to you. There's no excuse for hate for some stupid reason, so even if a girl maliciously tortured me, it would be bad for me to hate her. That's just hate... As for disliking a family member, so ****ing what? If that family member is a pain in the ass, there's a reason you have feelings of dislike. It's not that big of a deal and I think rather than forcing yourself to like that person, you should just come to terms with it and accept that this person is who he/she is and realize that you may never grow to like him/her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Marisa~
    Yes, that actually did make me feel tons better. It's not my brother that does it, it's my father. It's hard for me to feel those emotions because I try to love everyone as much as I can. I mean, since I was 7 my life's goal has been to join the Peace Corp through college, get my M.D. so I can be an E.R. doctor and then move to Africa to help the less fortunate. Growing up, I was constantly told I couldn't achieve my dreams. I love the African culture so I owned tons of African dolls and barbies as a child.
    That's a beautiful dream to have, to devote your life to helping others is worthy of sainthood. You seem very focused on your goal, you're working hard at it and it's certainly achievable for you.

    Quote Originally Posted by ~Marisa~
    To spite me, when I came home from school, my dad would hang the dolls off the stair case railing with a rope around it's neck or shoot my barbie's faces off. I'd cry for days.
    Reading those words makes me nauseous, that's absolutely disgusting. Nothing can justify behavior like that. I can't think of anything more malicious or disgraceful to do to a child... I'm so sorry you had to go through it *hugs for you*

    Quote Originally Posted by ~Marisa~
    And to answer someone else's question - I'm 19 and moving out with my sister in a few months. I already moved out once when I was 17 but had to move back because my sister went through a mental break-down >.< (Crap, I just spilt Dr.Pepper ALLLL over my keyboard lol) Anyways...I feel like a complainer and one of those people that "won't let the past go" but I just can't help but feel that way when I'm around him. I try with all my heart to fight against feeling bitter but it's like it almost comes as second instinct.
    It's only human to feel this way, I would not call you a complainer; complainers are those who feel bitter/complain about little things that don't bother most people. When it's something that traumatic, then it's a whole nother matter. It's difficult to deal with issues like that, and the fact you focus on your goals with such dedication shows you're a strong person, with a strong will to help others.

    What you must remember is you are not a machine, you're a human being. Machines can switch on and off, and do not have feelings. Humans do not operate that simply, we are living, breathing, thinking creatures with a heart and soul. It is my belief that we never really forget anything, things may pass from our concious thought, but everything we have experienced is stored in some deep, primarily inaccessible recesses of our brains.

    Quote Originally Posted by ~Marisa~
    I mean, my brother and I were always close growing up and my father knew that...so if I did something to upset my dad he'd force my brother to stab me in the stomach or knee with a pencil and if my brother didn't, he'd get whipped with the belt. I always told my brother to do it, though because I'd rather get hurt than him. - It's memories like that which come flooding back to me when I'm near my father. I guess things just never got settled because I've heard my parents talking in secrecy before and I've heard my dad say he doesn't think he was all that bad and that we all blow it out of proportion.


    I guess the best thing for me to do is move out - Live my life, love my boyfriend, become a doctor and raise my children as I never got to get raised. I honestly don't know if I want my dad to have a part in my future-family, though.
    What is with your dad?! It sounds like he's got some lifelong vendetta against you for no logical reason... Is there any reasonable explaination as to why he's doing this or is he just trying to push you as hard as he can? I have never heard of any parent doing anything like that before... What's wrong with him?!

    I've taken a few different stands through this post, but I'm hoping it makes some kind of sense
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    ok you sound a tiny bit like me to a certain extent lol i dont want to kill or sew their mouth shut..... the reason your relatives wind you up is becasue theyre intimately close to you and its hard to cope with that from someone that society expects you to 'love' this however is not capable for all of us we are humans not everybody likes everybody. eventually whatever the problem is it should sort itself out i.e. your relative laying off you or in my case growing up my sister was so immature anyway just hitting a wall seems to take away all stress i wouldnt try pillows or anything theres to much give in them it actually makes you more mad for failing at trying to calm down LOL


    and no your not a bad person YOU CANT GET ALONG WITH EVERYBODY (hitler for example wasn't fond of jewish people, or retarded people or people with brown eyes, or borwn hair, or not very tall people, ironicly he was small, fat had brown hair and brown eyes...)
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