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    Question for the girls...

    hey, I need some advice, specifically from girls, or maybe guys if they've been in this situation. A while back, I realized that I was in love with a girl. Everyday I'd see her, she'd smile at me and I'd smile back. After months of refusing to, being afraid and nervous, I actually told her how I felt. Now she at first thought that I was joking, but then I told that I wasn't. She went silent, and walked away when a friend of hers walked by. I was panicked, I thought how stupid I was. The holidays came, and then ended. I saw her again, I felt different, obviously. Anyways, time went by and we'd exchange glances in the crowd, and usually pop a oneliner in like "hi" or "hey", y'know? Anyways, she's also dating one of my best friends, and he doesn't even know, nobody knows! Whenever I try to talk with her, my friend is always with her, so I can never get a moment alone with her! I just want some advice, please.

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    If you still have feelings for her then I think you should let her know, seems like you do or you wouldn't be posting so.. just try your best to catch her when she's on her own. But is this girl worth losing your friend over?

    We need Marissa in here

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    Now that your friend is with her you are pissed. Next time you get a chance don't be shy... trust me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wiiwillstand
    hey, I need some advice, specifically from girls, or maybe guys if they've been in this situation. A while back, I realized that I was in love with a girl. Everyday I'd see her, she'd smile at me and I'd smile back. After months of refusing to, being afraid and nervous, I actually told her how I felt. Now she at first thought that I was joking, but then I told that I wasn't. She went silent, and walked away when a friend of hers walked by. I was panicked, I thought how stupid I was. The holidays came, and then ended. I saw her again, I felt different, obviously. Anyways, time went by and we'd exchange glances in the crowd, and usually pop a oneliner in like "hi" or "hey", y'know? Anyways, she's also dating one of my best friends, and he doesn't even know, nobody knows! Whenever I try to talk with her, my friend is always with her, so I can never get a moment alone with her! I just want some advice, please.
    ah to be younge and "in love" again :sigh:

    from the jist of the story, sounds like a case of puppy love. you obviously see her on a daily basis like youve said so im assuming you guys go to school together. now school may be big but somehow when something happens, it makes the news. suprisingly youre little "i love you" walk away story was something that wasnt leaked out to the public which youre lucky about.

    now were you guys friends when you met or aquaintences? did you talk to her? have classes together? hang out with the same groups? sometimes clashes (IE different set of friends, lunch periods, anything that can stop you from wanting to go out during school hours) can cause her to walk away "OMG LIKE WHAT WILL MY GIRL FRIENDS THINK OMG?!?!" sometimes its not even about who you like its about how good you look together. ive been around enough children to know by now (god help me for when i have kids im about that age now but ill stick with my puppy for now!!! )

    in any event, there are other girls out there i knwo there are! you seem like an OK kid just by reading the post here. if the girl has nothing to say right then and there she too is scared. give her time. and if the friend is there, be like "dude can i talk to her for a sec alone?" guys dont get as catty as girls do so i assure you hell walk away and let you talk with her. im sure hell ask her what you guys spoke about but thats of none of his concern.

    but dont get mad at your best friend there. if he doesnt know about what happend, leave him out of it. its between you and this girl. but like i said, if you talk to her alone and she still doesnt get the hint that you really like her after telling her a second time? shes an airhead leave her and get a new one

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    First off, how old are you?
    Secondly, my advice would be to forget about her; at least for the time being. If, in time, she finds she feels the same way that's great, but don't stand around waiting for her. I've made that mistake before, under slightly different circumstances, but it sucks anyway you slice it.
    In my case I just gave up; metaphorically. I stopped going around looking for someone to be with and I found, or was given, rather, someone so much better than anyone I would have picked for myself.
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    i appreciate your help. I'm really not sure if it's worth losing my friend, but I just don't know when. I usually go to my locker after school (obviously) and lately she's been standing at the intersection of hallways right by my locker waiting for someone, and that's never happened before, or maybe I've never noticed. I try to tell her, I feel the need to say something, but I know if I move in while my friend is still there, then he'll definitley know! I keep telling myself that I've been through the worst "I told her" but I still get too nervous. How can I go back to her and confront her after what I did? I told her at the worst time possible, I told her when my friend was gone to florida. I think that's pretty bad for me, cause the fac that I'm doing it behnd his back is wrong, but I can't tell him. You wouldn't believe what he did to himself when she broke up with him, twice! And it's because of that that they're still dating! Now I'm wondering if it's a pity date, or actual love? ......now I'm all over he place, I still need a ton of help, sorry everybody if i'm wasting your time.

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    id sit back for a while

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    sit back for a while, I told her 2 days before Christmas! And nothing has happened since! We've nearly reached the two month mark for god's sake! I don't know what she even thinks of me anymore! (sorry if I went a bit over the top, sorry) It's jsut that I think of her everyday, I see her everyday, I think everyday when I wake up, "today is the day when everything is resolved" but it never happens. I've never been lucky when it comes to love, I've never even told my interests how I feel, but her, she makes me want to say it willingly. That's why I can't give up!

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    oh sorry, i'm 15...

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