Well both of my parents are totally crazy and retarded but as for who is stricter It deponds on what we're dealing with. For example if I am drinking or fighting or something then my dad wouldn't really care where my mom would be a little mad. But if I was swearing or smoking pot or something my dad would be ****ing pissed while my mom wouldn't be as mad. It just depends on the situation. Its usually my mom that I have to deal with most of the time because my dad usually works from 4 or 5 in the morning until 6 or 7 at night so the only time that I really see him is on the weekends.