which way to go ?

**Liger_zero9999** · 07-10-2007 03:56 AM

ok, i have a problem and i'm not exactly sure what way to go about it .

ok i have a thing for a woman that works with one of my parents. he is 25 ( i'm 20). but i'm not exactly sure how to go about asking her out. the other girlfriends that i have had, they have been the ones to ask me out. so i've never been in this situation before.

do i ask her to meet me somewhere secluded and quiet. or so i leave her little clues as to who i am and see if she can figure it out?

i have nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo idea

EDIT: did i mention that she is already taken??? no?? hmm, i could of swon that i typed that in somewhere

help

**Ads** · 07-10-2007 03:56 AM

**guitarman** · 07-10-2007 03:58 AM

Ask her if she want's to go to cinema or something, or for a meal somewhere. Maybe the cinema thing is a teen thing

Good luck anyway

**gibbonman** · 07-10-2007 04:41 AM

lol i have the same problem.. just im 13 shes 12 and ive never had a girlfriend coz im to scared to ask her out XD we are friends though. i need help too.

**guitarman** · 07-10-2007 04:45 AM

Originally Posted by gibbonman

lol i have the same problem.. just im 13 shes 12 and ive never had a girlfriend coz im to scared to ask her out XD we are friends though. i need help too.

Aww, if you havent, ask her for her number and ask her out to cinema. She will get more comfortable been around you, get to know her abit, take her out for a hot choc or something at an expensive cafe/restaurant (impress her

) and ask her out. But Im guessing that's a bit much since you are 13.

**gibbonman** · 07-10-2007 04:49 AM

I have her number... well HAD then my mobile went throught the wash and now it is screwed and ive just moved to her school coz of bullying and i see her every friday coz of 10 pin bowling league but i am so nervous.

**guitarman** · 07-10-2007 04:52 AM

Originally Posted by gibbonman

I have her number... well HAD then my mobile went throught the wash and now it is screwed and ive just moved to her school coz of bullying and i see her every friday coz of 10 pin bowling league but i am so nervous.

I know how you feel but now I just go for it. As I said, get to know her better, make sure you think she likes you and go for the kill. The worst that could happen is that she will say no, so what?

**gibbonman** · 07-10-2007 04:54 AM

but then her friends probably will make fun of me? (If u havnt noticed i am quite shy

)

**guitarman** · 07-10-2007 04:56 AM

Originally Posted by gibbonman

but then her friends probably will make fun of me? (If u havnt noticed i am quite shy

)

Yeh but mate, I was shy once and I got really nervous around girls I like, now I am fine around them. Just act yourself, and who cares if her mates will make fun of you? Maybe you should talk to her best friend and ask her if the girl you fancy (her mate of course lol) likes you. If she says yes, she possibly will be telling the truth.
But Im not much help as I don't have that much info etc.

**gibbonman** · 07-10-2007 04:56 AM

I have not even told my best friends that i like her. Thats how worried i am

**gibbonman** · 07-10-2007 04:57 AM

But i dont know ANY of her friends coz im at a new school

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