lol i can see why you associate mind control with this subject, but idn, it just dosn't suit it,
girls typically want to be dominated by the males, as in males are the strong guy and what not....this can be evident whenever you see girls dumb themselves down
so if males are assholes or something, some girls might see this as a turn on
or maybe the girls are just really desperate, and feel secure having a boyfriend, and don't want to lose it
or maybe th egirl just really likes other qualities of the male, but like those qualities so much, she turns a blind eye to the assholish ones
there is probably a bunch of reasons why this could happen and i could write a couple more examples but i think that would be a bit overkill
overall though i think it usually happens because of a girl's feelings, and you can't control anyone's feelings so i don't think you can 'break it'