Do not meet her in real life. Actually I think you should delete/block her ASAP. This definately sounds fishy and meeting people online is not a good idea unless you really get to know them. This is probably a 40 year old guy whose trying to stick his penis in you like someone said earlier.
And Wiim8, maybe you should STFU with the constant spam and double posting. If you're going to be an arrogant ass, post on a forum that doesn't have an active community. you'll be much more appreciated there