Do you want to get married?

[Gikoku Harakami]

I don't really care, my fiance would like to so whenever she's ready, it's fine with me. Really though, marriage isn't necessary to me, but I'm for whatever she wants.

At some point I will want to get married again, but definitely not yet.

Again? ... oh yeah, forgot about that one time.

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[DBloke]

Marriage means no sex with one person

No marriage sex with loads of random people

Option two allthe way

[GigaRidley]

I'd like to get married eventually, but that's a ways off from now, I'm only 16. Once I'm done with all my education (highschool and college), it'll be more in the forefront of my mind.

[gidget]

i'm married to school. lol.

i'll be married. prolly when i'm 21-ish.
my boyfriend moved late last summer.. naturally don't expect it to last.

i'll have a few relationships over the next 4+ yrs.

[AndThen?]

Doesnt have to be religious, there are other ways to get married. Granted non are as flamboyant as the traditional way. But use your imagination and im sure you can come up with one better or just as sufficient.
Anyone know a days can go online have take a course to wed you. So that can rule out the priest. Dont like a church? Do it anywhere you want, cuz now u dont have to rely on the Priest.
But to me, I'll do anything my girlfriend wants on that day. Thats her day, yes its a day that we both share, but that is the day all girls dream about and plan for years.

Oh, I know, I said that I'd do it because it'd be a nice thing to do. I just mean it doesn't hold the baggage it does for religious people, what with abstinence and that. You don't gain anything through being married, really. It's just a nice thing.

[The_Mitch]

I definitely want to get married. My reasons are pretty much the same as Bliss's reasons.

[Bliss]

You don't gain anything through being married, really. It's just a nice thing.

I beg to differ.
Think about that financially first. What would happen if something were to happen to you and your 'girlfriend' or kids are now left with nothing cuz they technically mean nothing to you in a court of law.
Now i know this is not a reason to get married but if love someone, then you wouldnt want them to go through that.

[CantGetAWii]

i'm married to school. lol.

i'll be married. prolly when i'm 21-ish.
my boyfriend moved late last summer.. naturally don't expect it to last.

i'll have a few relationships over the next 4+ yrs.

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General consensus is pretty well everyone wants to get married at some point which is nice to see. Everyone tends to have the same reasons to get married and same things they want out of it too.

Lewi, you were married before?

[AndThen?]

I beg to differ.
Think about that financially first. What would happen if something were to happen to you and your 'girlfriend' or kids are now left with nothing cuz they technically mean nothing to you in a court of law.
Now i know this is not a reason to get married but if love someone, then you wouldnt want them to go through that.

That's a question of protection, not a question of love. Love isn't bound by the financial world... lol I'm so fruity.

[Frogger]

First off I'm a guy. For the longest time, I could not see myself in marriage, or having kids. I had a Girlfriend for over 7 years, but couldn't see myself spending the rest of my life with her, or starting a family, which ultimately ended the relationship. Then, at age 25, I met the woman who in 7 months would become my wife. Things changed for me overnight. I found the right person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. We now have been married for 17 years, and have two kids (10 and 5) which I can't imagine life without. You can say you will never get married, but I honestly believe there is someone out there for each of us, the challenge is finding them, and being patient enough to let the others go until you do.

Aawwh. I like you.

Yes, I do. I want the expensive dress, cake and ring. But I also want it outside which isn't traditionally religious or something, apparently God changed his mind a few decades ago and it can happen. I'm so with that. Providing that England has reliable weather and it won't bucketlash down.