isnt this very frustrating?

[vashivihan]

heres the deal. whenever something bad happens at my house, the blame is put on me and usually its correct. but on those rare instances when even if i am not the one to blame, my parents wont believe me. when i yell at them that i didnt do anything wrong, my mom says, "your yelling shows that you are guilty". what are you supposed to do, just keep quiet?

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[surfinrach90]

Just keep calm.

Really shouting about the place and getting worked up about things never used to work for me either. Then I grew up and realised I just needed to let it go over my head. Now if they blame me for something, (which they often still do, even though I'm only really here at night just to sleep) I just tell them it wasn't, and if they don't want to believe me then that's their problem. You should try it. Just let it go over you man.

[vashivihan]

Just keep calm.

Really shouting about the place and getting worked up about things never used to work for me either. Then I grew up and realised I just needed to let it go over my head. Now if they blame me for something, (which they often still do, even though I'm only really here at night just to sleep) I just tell them it wasn't, and if they don't want to believe me then that's their problem. You should try it. Just let it go over you man.

i even did that in couple of scenarios but still they dont believe me. if i keep qiiet, they say that he is quiet cause he is guilty. lol

[surfinrach90]

Lol, yeah it's frustrating.
Just tell them you know you wasn't responsible so you're not worried.

[Chewy]

Just lay face first on the ground with your arms at your side.

A guilty person would not do that.

[zapasant]

only a guilty person would make a thread about it!

GUILTY!

[Brawny]

heres the deal. whenever something bad happens at my house, the blame is put on me and usually its correct.

You brought it upon yourself then.

[rukus]

yelling won't help the situation.
have you repeatedly lied about not doing something that you did in hopes they wouldnt find out it was you?
if so, then you backed yourself into this corner.
next time theyre yelling at you, dont say anything until they stop yelling at you. stay calm.

[DRMARIO]

You brought it upon yourself then.

Precisely what I was going to write.


If you want people to believe that you don't do stupid things, then why do them?
This is like the boy who cried wolf - you can't complain about your parents, when you brought this on your self.

[Fox]

Tell them their wrong, if they don't beleive you, just "whatever" and walk away. Seriously, what's the worst that could happen? "Oh noez! I'm grounded!"