I'd never marry simply because it has no upsides. I mean, like I've already mentioned, ideally, I don't want that sort of burden.
And also, given that I don't marry - I won't get fleeced in the case of a divorce. Why would I get married knowing that a divorce may well ensue, along with the loss of a hell of a lot of cash, and belongings.
Enoch was right.
However, I can safely say I shan't be changing my views.
In fact, I might as well ask.
Why is it do you think, that people are generally happier when they've 'settled down'? I mean, I have pretty much the same mindset as my Great Grandmother Elsie, and she lived an amazing life. She never 'settled down', and I admire her so much.
I just don't see the advantage of whining children and a child-orientated household.
Enoch was right.
Hell yea i wanna get married!
But only once
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Can't say I'm too bothered.
If I did.. I've got to admit I'd be mainly doing it to have a good 'ol get together party. I don't think being married really changes your relationship, certainly not help it anyway. So I'm not too bothered about it. It might sound mean but yeah.. it wouldn't really be for the commitment stuff, I don't need a ring and a piece of paper to know what's what in my relationship. I'd just rather it be.. a celebration of our love.. yeah.
I'm not going to tell you what to think or anything, but you're only young so don't rule out marriage just yet! There's no apparent reason why you'd get divorced, and the right lady might change your mind
just got engaged in may. getting married next august.
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Like I've said though, it is your choice and you do know whats best for you, but I feel like having children and having a wife are things in life I would never want to miss. Sure you'll be terrified when the sucker pops out of the womb and much stress will ensue in raising them, but just as with marriage, why focus on the negative. I tend to believe the fact that it takes work to make it work shows that its worth something. Nothing good in life comes free.
Last edited by Skorp; 07-07-2009 at 07:04 PM.
**** yeah I wanna get married. I want an attractive wife so that's why I'm working out already.
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