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Kefka (Destroys the damn world)
Ghirahim (Breaks apart giant boulders with his sword, catches your sword in between his fingers, etc)
Xenoblade character (Zanza, the evil god. He's a god. Need I say more?)
Last Story character (Jirall, the prince. Is a pussy at first, but when he goes crazy, he's freaking badass)
Probably more that I either don't know about or not coming to mind.
So you're using a homophobic to justify your argument? Also, fab ≠ gay.
Manly is the opposite of fabulous, though, because manly implies masculine traits (shut up I know I used to intertwine it with badass, not anymore) while fabulous involves feminine traits. Your logic seems rather sexist.
Badass people just don't care about appearances
And no it is not about being kick ass. Sometimes it's also about being humble and self-disciplined. They don't care for glory. They don't care how people see them. They just give it there all and let there actions speak and not their words. Which includes not fighting.
Both genders have badasses but badass usually ties more closely to the masculine
Edit: in fact I would say it is a masculine trait
no before you run your mouth about me being sexist, both genders have both masculinity and femininity in them. It is up to the individual how much of each side that person has.
Being a badass in essence is more about being masculinely mature
Your definition of badass is rather peculiar. I disagree with your definition completely.