Some people just over react when newbies break the rules. Atleast I wasn't one of them (and if you were referring to me in that post, I believe you're over reacting). :P
But really, time and again Wiichat sees these threads from newbies... I can imagine quite a few people will post here to complain, so... It's best not to make threads, complaining about the community (especially when the community isn't even bad here, it's quite a good place, IMO).