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serious awnser, be casual, now this could be wrong, but try to make friends with her friends (her guy friends) and then when you hang out with them and her you should get confortable around her and so on, it might sound wrong but i mean atleast find a friend of hers that you know you would really like as a friend, dont be fake! unless shes really worth it (fake as in pretending you like them and make sure to laugh at their jokes!)
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ok, i honestly have no right 2 be giving advice, as my first relationship in quite a while totally sucks right now, but heres what worked 4 me:
1.)pretend there your sister
2.)pretend your gay
3.)once you become friends with them, wait a little while, and then ask them "out of curiosity, would you ever go out with me?" if they say yes, wait a little longer and then ask them out. if they say no, say "ok, friends then?"
thats all the advice i have 2 give, but now i need some advice:
im 14. how do i meet girls? i mean, seriously all my friends that r girls r more like sisters, or going out with my friends. i mean if i could meet girls im sure i could ask them out, but how do i meet them?
im pretty desperate; i resorted 2 going 2 church, and IM NOT EVEN CHRISTIAN!!
please reply
That sounds like a bad plan, you will have no chance doing that..
What you need to do, is be yourself, if they don't like you for that, then they are far from worth it.
Now on to you, your 14, why have you got to meet girls? when i was 14 i was possibly thinking they were hot, but there is no need for a relationship at this age.
its weird, i have a girl on my yahoo im list and we always talk, but when i get to school, i black out and cant place a word on her. it drives me insane.
lol u def. need some girl input on this thread. I think WiiWouldLike2Play had the right idea. But w.e u do, if u want to end up dating the girls... DO NOT... treat her like a sister... she ends up loving u but never seeing you in a... sexual maner lol. However if it is just friendship u want... the whole pretend she is ur sis/gay thing works great.
Now it always depends on the girl because no girls like the same kinda guy. Me for example, i always fall for the shy guy where as most of my friends dig the bad a$$. But if you are looking for a meaningful realationship you def. have to be urself. A great ice breaker for friendship or romantic relationship that will work on any girl is a compliment. I'm telling you this is the only 100% guarenteed ice breaker. I don't think i know a girl out there who dosn't like a compliment, as long as its not creepy. Just say something like... ur hair looks nice today... or... that colour make up really brings out ur eyes. Anything u notice will work as long as its not something like gee that shit sure makes ur rack look great. haha. if u are looking for something to do as far as valentines love goes tho make a small gesture but something thoughtful. I mean if u know her fav. candy, give her some of that just in a friendly maner. Or maybe u know her fav. flower, pick up one of those and deliver it with a lil note saying "thinking of u" or something suttle. If u really want the girl don't out ur heart on the line right off the bat or u will scare her off, keep her guessing. But with that said u have to be carful to u don't get too distant by "keeping her guessing" haha or she will think ur uninterested. It is an art really and it does take a lil work but anyone can do it. Its like fingerpainting haha, anyone can do it but the more u practise the less sloppy it looks.
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the media is the reason lil kids wanna get into relationships to me wen ur in high skool theres no such thang as luv its bascally lust
Although i do agree that when ur 13ish and such, relationships are fuled by the media... there is totaly such thing as love in highschool. My bf and i have been going out for about 3 years now, he graduated last year and i'm graduating this year and it is def. not just lust. I have been sick this past week and he has been over here everyday making soup, watchin movies, and cuddling... thats not lust thats love.
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god you guys are all giving this kid the wrong advice, you want real advice ill let you know whats up.
listen, first off BE YOURSELF, if they dont like you for who you are you'd better forget them cause you have no chance. now after talkin to a girl for awhile, give her subtle compliments about her, women love being complemented. When your around her, try not to always go over right away and say something. Kinda ignore her for little, see if shes interested. If not she may be doing the same thing to you so just play it cool. Lastly be flirty with her, joke around. One thing I always do is when were jokin around with each other, ill just grab her side a lil bit on her stomach. Now it's not much, but they like being flirty like that.
Now im 22, i forget what it was like when i was 13, but these things should work for a guy at any age. you need any other help kid, PM me. to tell you the truth most these other dudes dont know what they're talkin about.
lol u def. need some girl input on this thread. I think WiiWouldLike2Play had the right idea. But w.e u do, if u want to end up dating the girls... DO NOT... treat her like a sister... she ends up loving u but never seeing you in a... sexual maner lol. However if it is just friendship u want... the whole pretend she is ur sis/gay thing works great.
Now it always depends on the girl because no girls like the same kinda guy. Me for example, i always fall for the shy guy where as most of my friends dig the bad a$$. But if you are looking for a meaningful realationship you def. have to be urself. A great ice breaker for friendship or romantic relationship that will work on any girl is a compliment. I'm telling you this is the only 100% guarenteed ice breaker. I don't think i know a girl out there who dosn't like a compliment, as long as its not creepy. Just say something like... ur hair looks nice today... or... that colour make up really brings out ur eyes. Anything u notice will work as long as its not something like gee that shit sure makes ur rack look great. haha. if u are looking for something to do as far as valentines love goes tho make a small gesture but something thoughtful. I mean if u know her fav. candy, give her some of that just in a friendly maner. Or maybe u know her fav. flower, pick up one of those and deliver it with a lil note saying "thinking of u" or something suttle. If u really want the girl don't out ur heart on the line right off the bat or u will scare her off, keep her guessing. But with that said u have to be carful to u don't get too distant by "keeping her guessing" haha or she will think ur uninterested. It is an art really and it does take a lil work but anyone can do it. Its like fingerpainting haha, anyone can do it but the more u practise the less sloppy it looks.
that is the most confusing shit ever lol. why cant girls just be easy to pick up
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god you guys are all giving this kid the wrong advice, you want real advice ill let you know whats up.
listen, first off BE YOURSELF, if they dont like you for who you are you'd better forget them cause you have no chance. now after talkin to a girl for awhile, give her subtle compliments about her, women love being complemented. When your around her, try not to always go over right away and say something. Kinda ignore her for little, see if shes interested. If not she may be doing the same thing to you so just play it cool. Lastly be flirty with her, joke around. One thing I always do is when were jokin around with each other, ill just grab her side a lil bit on her stomach. Now it's not much, but they like being flirty like that.
Now im 22, i forget what it was like when i was 13, but these things should work for a guy at any age. you need any other help kid, PM me. to tell you the truth most these other dudes dont know what they're talkin about.
isn't that almost exactly what i said :P lol
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girls can be intimidating and just as shy so dont feel bad if you feel that when you cant look a girl in the eye, chances are they cant do it either. we'll forever be like that even when we're 50 and we watch our kids do it too
my advise is that i know theres a girl you fancy and i think you should go up to her and ask her to be your valentine the old fashioned way. it works believe it or not. i know youre only 13 and $$$ isnt exactly "easy to come by" at that age so if you get her a nice boquet of flowers from youre local grocery store (in the US they are usually like 7$ if that). she will know it came straight from the heart and that you had good intentions. cards too and a candy of her choice. find out what kind of cholate or fruit candy she likes.
either way, dont be scared. whats the worst that can happen? shell say no? come on i KNOW theres someone out there for you dont let it stress you out
ETA- on the whole "sister" thing, NOT a good idea 1 and 2, youre 13! NO SEX OF ANY KIND YOURE STILL A KID!
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ok i am 13 yrs old and I love talking'll but that changes when its a girl. I just cant look them in the eye and talk because i think they will think i am hitting on the. any ideas that could help me? cause valentine's day is round the corner
i guess it depends on how the girl/s acts towards you too, because theres a kid in my year and ive seen him talk once- thats like 2 years ago! i have not heard him speak EVER after that even though hes in my year! in my lessons!!
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