Who Should Pay On A Date?

Fire Flower · 03-15-2008, 08:05 AM

Brawny, all men are bad. Naturally.

Celeste · 03-15-2008, 10:50 AM

Gender equality is an excuse to be cheap in this context, IMO. Girls should be treated like princesses on dates! Chivalry doesn't have to be dead. Save the gender equality for the jobforce.

That being said, I still don't want to be paid for all the time, I just want to be treated fabulous. Gender equality means I can open doors for myself and pull out my own chair. It's the cutest thing ever when guys do that stuff. Don't stop doing itttt. </random rant>

Brawny · 03-15-2008, 10:55 AM

Why was my earlier post deleted, okay, maybe the language was a bit crude...

If we're to do it the old fashioned way, if the guy is supposed to treat her like a princess (which I think I do to her, besides the McDonald's arrangements), she's supposed to put out for him. >>

Mau · 03-15-2008, 10:59 AM

There is one thing, She ask him out!!! We invite someone out because we are interested in that person. So the one that invites, pays. What about if you got ask out, and end up not liking that person or that 2 hours of dinner, why should he pay? he was the invited?? or you invite a guy to your house and then have them make dinner???

If that was me, this are the probabilities: If I like her a lot, I would offer to pay for everything after she takes the wallet out. If she just stares at me like she did, I just put half of the amount in the table. And if if everything was very unconfortable, because probably I am raise on a "men always pay" I would of pay half. but willing to think of making her to pay for everything!

Mau · 03-15-2008, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Brawny

Why was my earlier post deleted, okay, maybe the language was a bit crude...

If we're to do it the old fashioned way, if the guy is supposed to treat her like a princess (which I think I do to her, besides the McDonald's arrangements), she's supposed to put out for him. >>

But there is no old fashion way in this situation, if it were old fashion, she shouldn't of ask him out in the first place

Celeste · 03-15-2008, 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brawny

Why was my earlier post deleted, okay, maybe the language was a bit crude...

If we're to do it the old fashioned way, if the guy is supposed to treat her like a princess (which I think I do to her, besides the McDonald's arrangements), she's supposed to put out for him. >>

You? Crude language? I'm curious now, haha.

And I see no problems with that arrangement!

**DPrinny** · 03-15-2008, 11:05 AM

Off/on topicish question
Its about somebody buyin

Im talkin johnnys
Who buys them the fer or the fe

Napalmbrain · 03-15-2008, 11:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Celeste

Gender equality is an excuse to be cheap in this context, IMO. Girls should be treated like princesses on dates! Chivalry doesn't have to be dead. Save the gender equality for the jobforce.

That being said, I still don't want to be paid for all the time, I just want to be treated fabulous. Gender equality means I can open doors for myself and pull out my own chair. It's the cutest thing ever when guys do that stuff. Don't stop doing itttt. </random rant>

So basically, you want equality only when it suits you.

Bliss · 03-15-2008, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Napalmbrain

So basically, you want equality only when it suits you.

Thats the truth and how ALL woman are, they want everything when it suits them.

Frogger · 03-15-2008, 11:29 AM

Obviously, what moron wouldn't?

Celeste · 03-15-2008, 11:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Napalmbrain

So basically, you want equality only when it suits you.

Well that's one way of interpreting it.
I just think it's incredibly sweet and classy when guys are a bit old fashioned on dates.
My somewhat submissive nature is great at stroking mens egos...among other things, so I think it balances out well for both of us.

Brawny · 03-15-2008, 11:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Celeste

Well that's one way of interpreting it.
I just think it's incredibly sweet and classy when guys are a bit old fashioned on dates.
My somewhat submissive nature is great at stroking mens egos...among other things, so I think it balances out well for both of us.

Yeah, Emma! Why can't you stroke me sometimes!

Frogger · 03-15-2008, 11:44 AM

But you do it to yourself so well.

Brawny · 03-15-2008, 11:47 AM

Absence makes the heart grow more witty apparently. xD

Yeah, Mau, I still agree with the asker paying. If the girl wants to be going with a gentleman, he would have asked in the first place.

Frogger · 03-15-2008, 11:49 AM

Well if you insist on coming to England it's only natural you pay all of the flight!

Celeste · 03-15-2008, 11:49 AM

Sometimes...well, a lot of the times, guys don't have the balls to ask girls out. They think the girl is out of their league. I've asked some guys out before and they're like completely shocked that I asked, and they go completely into chivalry mode. I like those onessss.

Brawny · 03-15-2008, 11:54 AM

I like being chivalrous, but there's no way in hell I'm going to pay ALL the flight, the hotel stay, AND meals (+gifts)...

She knows I love her, and I'll take care of all her wants and needs. But c'moon.

Celeste · 03-15-2008, 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brawny

I like being chivalrous, but there's no way in hell I'm going to pay ALL the flight, the hotel stay, AND meals (+gifts)...

She knows I love her, and I'll take care of all her wants and needs. But c'moon.

Yeah, I get you. Makes sense, that's a lot.

If Brian comes here, he stays in my room and we live on a diet of whipped cream. My situation proves to be easier again xD.

Brawny · 03-15-2008, 12:05 PM

No whipped cream.

Mau · 03-15-2008, 12:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Frogger

Well if you insist on coming to England it's only natural you pay all of the flight!

But hold on, going to a far away country means it is a relationship, there everything changes, depends on the financial situation of both. If is not a relationship, the guy is an idiot (sorry if I ofended someone) But come on! if you are flying to date, your are spending a lot of money, off course, if you have it, well, then its fine I guess, but I would look local girls first, I guess.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Celeste

Sometimes...well, a lot of the times, guys don't have the balls to ask girls out. They think the girl is out of their league. I've asked some guys out before and they're like completely shocked that I asked, and they go completely into chivalry mode. I like those onessss.

Well, do you pay?? Or that is why you invite them? because you know they are going to pay for it. Since they will give anything to be with a girl that its "out of their league".

03-15-2008, 10:50 AM	#42
Celeste WiiChat Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1,678 Friends: 18 2937-4259-9208-4198	Gender equality is an excuse to be cheap in this context, IMO. Girls should be treated like princesses on dates! Chivalry doesn't have to be dead. Save the gender equality for the jobforce. That being said, I still don't want to be paid for all the time, I just want to be treated fabulous. Gender equality means I can open doors for myself and pull out my own chair. It's the cutest thing ever when guys do that stuff. Don't stop doing itttt. </random rant> Last edited by Celeste; 03-15-2008 at 10:55 AM.

03-15-2008, 10:59 AM	#44
Mau WiiChat Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Miami Posts: 629 Friends: 0 8829-6844-1117-2743	There is one thing, She ask him out!!! We invite someone out because we are interested in that person. So the one that invites, pays. What about if you got ask out, and end up not liking that person or that 2 hours of dinner, why should he pay? he was the invited?? or you invite a guy to your house and then have them make dinner??? If that was me, this are the probabilities: If I like her a lot, I would offer to pay for everything after she takes the wallet out. If she just stares at me like she did, I just put half of the amount in the table. And if if everything was very unconfortable, because probably I am raise on a "men always pay" I would of pay half. but willing to think of making her to pay for everything! __________________ "Theres is nothing impossible, just men incapable." (N/A) Brawl FC: 2921-8755-4852, If you add me pm me. If you like competition join the first tournament of Brawl inThe Atlantic South region Last edited by Mau; 03-15-2008 at 11:05 AM.

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