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i would say thats an easy answer, but people must realise that they are far more in control of their mindset and emotions then they know. A person that feels shit because someone else 'makes' them feel shit has their self to blame as well, because they allow such matters to affect them. It's like a girl i once knew, she would have problems from time to time, trivial ones i thought, but she would just get upset by it.
After awhile, it just feels like that is the kind of person she was, she just found reasons to be upset because she thinks her emotions are far beyond her control, when they are not at all
Honestly that kinda offends me in a way. I mean I'm not mad or anything. But to say that's possible just upsets me. Seeing how I do "try" to control my emotion every ****ing day and fail too. Most of the time I try not to care what people think yet I feel self-conscious and what not. It's harder than you think, well at least for me. But that's just my perspective.
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i would say thats an easy answer, but people must realise that they are far more in control of their mindset and emotions then they know. A person that feels shit because someone else 'makes' them feel shit has their self to blame as well, because they allow such matters to affect them. It's like a girl i once knew, she would have problems from time to time, trivial ones i thought, but she would just get upset by it.
After awhile, it just feels like that is the kind of person she was, she just found reasons to be upset because she thinks her emotions are far beyond her control, when they are not at all
Hey some people in this world aren't insensitive dicks you know. Some people have trouble handling and controlling their emotions. I suppose not everyone can understand that.
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i would say thats an easy answer, but people must realise that they are far more in control of their mindset and emotions then they know. A person that feels shit because someone else 'makes' them feel shit has their self to blame as well, because they allow such matters to affect them. It's like a girl i once knew, she would have problems from time to time, trivial ones i thought, but she would just get upset by it.
After awhile, it just feels like that is the kind of person she was, she just found reasons to be upset because she thinks her emotions are far beyond her control, when they are not at all
That's a terrible generalization.
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the reason they make you feel bad is bc they were the geeks that got picked on in School. They are lowlives that have nothing better to do than start wars that they could never start in front of someone. As i said just geeks. Easiest thing to do is just remember that.
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That wasn't a generalisation. If someone goes out of their way to upset you, then yeah, you have every right to be upset, but if you can't control your emotions as well as others, then bitching about how you feel 'shit' isn't really the best action to take...
and lol...talk about being ganged up on. That wasn't even a flame, sorry you guys would rather lash out than to try an understand, sucks for you
if you could control your emotions to the point where how ppl tried to make you feel, then you wouldn't really be human. i mean i wish i could just tell myself to be happy when ppl are talking shit to me, but it doesn't exactly work that way.
being happy would be a stupid way to feel if people are talking shit to you. You're not supposed to be lieing to yourself, but take it as it is and not lash out and bitch about it would be a good start
Well when people are talking shit to you, they mean for you to feel like shit. therefore, by your argument, it was perfectly fine for Z3wpk to feel like shit, since he was just taking it as it was. Correct? Correct.
no, take it for what it is which is some idiot going out of their way to make you feel bad. Having yourself feel like shit isn't going to help you, nor is pretending to be happy at such a time, however it would be a good time to learn to control yourself and self improvement
well it's easier to say that it's just some idiot trying to make you feel bad, but that doesn't really make someone feel better to think that somebody would wanna make them feel like shit for no reason. it's not your fault if somebody tries to make you feel bad and they succeed, so long as it doesn't affect you long term
eh, it's not your fault if somebody makes you feel bad correct, it's how you deal with it. If there is a reason for such an attack that the person can admit, then self improvement can follow or at least know that you are going to get flak for the same reason for this attack.
it just needs to be known that lashing out to insults and what not and blaming everyone else isn't going to do anything. Sometimes you just need to stop and think
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