Hi I'm a guy Who never has been Into a girl anyday in his life that is until I Meet "her" I met this Girl at in Gaming event sometime ago and I Really like her I talked to her and It was awesome but Sadly we went our ways

the only I could get from her was her e-mail. I REALLY Like her and I want to see again but.... I could only send e-mails nothing More I asked if we could you know be more like Real friends but she doesn't want to get close But I do! I'm in Love with Her but at the way it's going I'll never see her again....

How can I can get her to like me? And how can I her more close to Her? I know Nothing about Love In fact This is The FIRST Time I ever been in love...

You can't make someone fall in love with you. If she's made it clear to you that she isn't interested then I'd just move on, or stay friends with her but forget about trying to have a relationship with her.

Well like Rach said you cant have someone fall for you. Best bet is to let it go for a while. And i doubt its love you have with her, if you two never really had anything to begin with. Just let it go and maybe e-mail her like a month or so from now. But just say Hi how are you. Dont be pushy, gotta get a friendship established before anything can happen.

She never said that clearly I think it is more like she being just careful I understand that. At the sometime she said she wouldn't mind meeting again. So it's not clear if she said like that. But I don't want to force her to do anything that's just wrong I want her to know me and maybe if anything just be friends... But I would like to be more that....

take note of her like's and dis-like's (act on her like's!), if you meet her in person hang on her every word.

Do you live near her?

Maybe you could ask to hang out as friends?

There's a difference between infatuation and love.

preach playa preach

The answer is simple.



Good luck.

As WiiRed said, there is a difference between those two. But in the end you've got to ask yourself, DO you actually love her. Being in love is being the happiest you've been around this person, their smile brings you all the warmth you need, and you'd do anything for her well being and sake. I'm no expert on this stuff, but I've got an idea of what it is. A perfect example would be to look at some videos of John Lennon and Yoko Ono together, and ask yourself is that how you feel about this girl. In my own personal opinion I think the love John and Yoko shared was the real deal, a love that even the Gods would be jealous of.

After you cleared that up, and if you know how you feel for her just be yourself. If you can't be yourself about the one you love, well.. Let's just say you'll have quite the dilemma in the near future, not to mention make her smile and laugh. But don't try to hard 'cause then it makes you look like a retard.

If you truly love her you'll accept the decision she's made. No one said it'd be easy.

?uestlove.

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