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ok well lately i have been turning more into a hardcore gamer than a gym junkie party animal i have like 4 good mates but bar them i really have no other mates. yeah i can point at my changing schools for the blame but really my social life has disappeared but i got into a mind set where i thought blah who needs to go out yadda yadda i have many many years to do that im only 16 for crying out loud. but i really crave going out and getting wasted with mates... the problem is the old mates who i used to go out with i dont really talk to. but here is the problem that was just a prelude to the fact that my hormones have kicked in and now that im not going out i dont really have anything "on" so to speak. so i was at work today strapping a horse and their where several attractive people problem is they would have all been over 18 that means they can legaly drink and go out. this is what scares me the most its the fact that i dont want to put my self out and get rejected im so terrified of it and i was wondering how you guys tell if a chick is giving you the look... when i was going out it didnt matter i just go drunnk and went for it... but when im sober its differnt... another bad part is socialising after i get their numbers most people think im atleast 18 due to my larger than normal musles and stuble plus i really just look 18 i am terrifed of them saying hey lets go clubing and me going ugg well im yeah 16. so yeah feel free to comment on my blog. if you can read it and make sence of it at all.
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Yeah...I wish I knew 'the look' too, that way I wouldn't be talking to a girl and she's thinking, **** I should never have glimpsed at him when he sneezed...
You don't need to be terrified of such things, and you don't 'nee'd a girlfriend all that urgently. Just have fun with the mates you have and wait till your 18 to get shitfaced with a girl.
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nono seriosuly. mate if you think they are taking a look at you. keep a eye on it. if they keep stalking you repeatedly then i'd take it a bit further and start talking to them.
if they really like you then they wont care that your 16, they can go other places that dont have to involve booze.
but if you get rejected. no harm done. just keep searching for the one mate
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yeah but at the races i might see them next week or next month and it would be awkward plus everyone in the racing industry is really tight and well the old men would give me dodgy looks.
Okay, I can sort of comment on this.
Don't go into it thinking 'Damn, I'm going to get rejected'. And if you do, there really is no harm done. I really don't think that many girls go around saying 'Oh my god, this person asked me out! Can you believe it?' in some kind of blonde stereotypical way. And when they do, they are just being bitchy. And there's a reason why everyone knows how good they are in bed.
Also remember that some girls feel weird around younger guys. These are the 18 yr old ones. Not all of them. But I know most of the girls at my school stated at least once they wouldn't date younger, only older. It was a maturity thing, they claimed. Though if you looked at the 16 year olds at my school, there was no way you'd mistake them for 18. They looked more like 14.
As for the "look" depends. My friends have interesting ways... One of them avoids eye contact with the person altogether. "Look, Eki! Hot guy over there" *turns opposite direction and refuses to look back* And maybe I'm not subtle, I just stare at the guy trying to judge if he's hot or not, while my friend is screaming 'STOP LOOKING!!!' Then of course, there was the time when the HOT PE teacher came. Practically every girl from Yr 10 up was stalking the PE staff room. Now there was no doubt about that being interest. And he was only young, early 20's, so in our 16 year old minds there was a possibility, no matter how small. So, if girls are kind of hanging around to catch glimpses, yes. My advice, stop worrying about if you're getting the look. Just go for it.
As for going out. You're 16, I cannot possibly encourage underage drinking. I spend far to much time criticising underage girls for drinking, ending up in bed and then crying about it afterwards when Mummy and Daddy demanded to know where they were all night. But yes, there will be plenty of time once you're legal - for drinking - that said, there is nothing wrong with a social life, but it doesn't need to involve drinking. Okay, I am going to stop acting like a boring adult now.
EDIT - Oh, and one of my friends in her version of the look involved rushing over to meet said hot guy. Walking past the fire station once, she spotted a fireman and said "INTRODUCE ME!" ... Yes, apparently she expected me to go up to a guy I have never met and say "Hi there, allow me to introduce Sarah."
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Okay, I can sort of comment on this.
Don't go into it thinking 'Damn, I'm going to get rejected'. And if you do, there really is no harm done.
haha. once i realised this, there was no stopping me. it was a case of "you want me? no. whatever" and move on (not in those words, but that was the attitude. and that attitude substantially increases your odds. cos the more you ask, the more chance you have of a positive result. i think back to the days that i was a nervous teen and think of all the missed opportunities i had.
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EDIT - Oh, and one of my friends in her version of the look involved rushing over to meet said hot guy. Walking past the fire station once, she spotted a fireman and said "INTRODUCE ME!" ... Yes, apparently she expected me to go up to a guy I have never met and say "Hi there, allow me to introduce Sarah."
hahaha, "Haaaaaaaaaave you met ted"
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edit: on the topic of books, some of the best books i have read have come out of the bargain bin at the book store, just read the back and if it looks interesting get it. you can get a lot of books for 5 - 10 bucks each
