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  1. CantGetAWii

    CantGetAWii WiiChat Member

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    Well lets get started.

    Recently I have told a girl that I have liked her.
    Her response was either one of these two..

    "I haven't thought of you like that"
    or
    "I haven't really thought of you like that".

    Those may be similar there, but the last one sounds better in my books.
    Now, rather than her ignore me or completely disregard my existence she hasn't.
    Rather the opposite. Maybe all girls don't disregard guys that have told them they like her, but I have seen it happen before.

    We were friends before, we knew each other before..I didn't just go up to some random girl and tell her I liked her.
    The reason I did was because we were flirting and what not for a bit, we would always talk etc.

    I figured she felt the same way for me for sure.
    Now I would like for her to feel the same way, maybe she does.

    Do I stand a chance? :lol:
     
  2. LevesqueIsKing

    LevesqueIsKing An Instant Classic

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    *sigh* women and their mysteries.

    Its possible that she was hiding her real feelings, if you two were really flirting. Its also possible that you've envoked a change of heart in her and she now likes you.

    Then again, I'm not the best guy to take this kind of advice from :lol:
     
  3. ARav989

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    ...just give her a little time. keep flirting. keep talking to her. be there when she needs someone. eventually, im sure there will be a change of heart.
     
  4. Frogger

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    That post freaking confused me...
     
  5. el-zilcho

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    why not ask her out ? then all your questions will be answered
     
  6. ARav989

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    if you mean mine then what im saying is that if he keeps working on it, she'll possibly like him back.
     
  7. Frogger

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    Nope, the whole situation.
     
  8. ARav989

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    ahhh i see.

    on topic- But yeah, just keep working on it and i hope for the best.update if anything happens :thumbsup:
     
  9. Gampla

    Gampla Brawl user = Ninja

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    Thread closed

    lol :D
     
  10. ARav989

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    :wtf:

    huh?
     
  11. surfinrach90

    surfinrach90 I GOT A JAR OF DIRT.

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    Just give her space/time to think it over.. she said that she's never thought about you in that way, but now you've brought it up she'll be thinking of you, in that way.

    Wait a couple of days and if she doesn't bring the conversation up again then try hinting towards it, if she doesn't seem interested then that's because she doesn't like you in that way, if she seems keen then take it up a notch. Good luck, hope this helps.
     
  12. samXcor3

    samXcor3 the best kid!

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    just keep doing what you're doing. in my opinion you should never outright tell a girl you like them. it puts them on the spot and makes things awkward. i think you should just let it happen, keep flirting, maybe hint that you like them, and eventually it might come up some how.
     
  13. Warrior

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    Levesque is king......Triple H rules....

    On topic though, you should replied..."well mayeb you should start thinking about me in that way" if your confident enough give her a wink then walk away.

    Thats what i would do i reckon....but im quite confident i guess. That would get her thinking alot more about you. Its original and girls like confidence.

    So my advice, try being confident around her, and ask her again in about a week or so.
     
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    ^This guy knows what he's talking about.

    :shifty:
     
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  16. WiiWouldLike2Play

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    How exactly does she flirt with you? Well, you can't really push a girl into liking you. Lol, of course. If you see her kind of backing off, stop flirting. That is like the least thing you would want to do. Has she changed ever since you told her that you've liked her?

    Well, it depends. >_< At least you didn't find out from someone else that the person likes you. I mean, this kid who still likes me.. never told me face to face. He had to let the wholeeeee school know. Then again, I don't even know this kid.
    But yeah, some girls just flirt and they don't even notice it. I guess it's a girl thing? Same with guys? My friend flirts ALL the time.. with every girl he sees. It's not even funny! He doesn't even like them. But he flirts? Anyone want to explain why?

    (and what Rach said, is totally true.)
     
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  17. CantGetAWii

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    Thanks for the advice.
    We haven't talked in person since I told her.

    We have been talking on good ol msn though :lol:

    I am just happy she's not ignoring me :lol:
    Surely that must be good.

    She hasn't really changed since then, still talk a lot.
    Haven't brought all that up though.

    Maybe no change is bad, maybe its good.
    All I know is I am quite clueless, and will attempt to pull something off with this :lol:

    Thanks again.
     
  18. Marioman

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    Good Luck! and remember...BE YOURSELF
     
  19. KrisKhaos

    KrisKhaos Retro Gamer

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    hmm... It's difficult to offer advice with so little information.

    1. How old is she?
    2. How long have you known her?
    3. How much do you know about her?
    4. How to you carry yourself around an individual you are attracted to?
    4b. Has others noticed your actions? Have the commented on them?

    Other than the more generic (good) advice, such as be yourself, etc. etc., there needs to be more information present for us to assess your situation. :)
     
  20. CantGetAWii

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    1. My age 16
    2. I have known her since May of this year.
    3. I know quite a bit about her, hard to explain that one :lol:
    4. I act normal around her, like I would anyone else..besides when I am trying to get her attention.
    4b. No one else has seen my actions really, my close friends know I like her, and have noticed me talking to her, nothing more or less than that.
     

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