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Abstinence. Your views?

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  1. Trulen

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    Hiyo.
    I was just browsing the internet forums and I came across a thread.
    Then it got me thinking. This part is extremely beside-the-point.

    So anyways.

    What do you guys think about abstinence?
    That is, having sex until you're married.


    Internet gamers tend to share the same characteristics, such as a love for metal/rock, a hate for George Bush, and even the same views on abstinence.

    The current internet gamer view is they don't support it.


    But anyways, there's even a GPA (Goverment's Program on Abstinence) club at my school (in my opinion, half the people don't need to be in there ;O I'm not in it myself, 'cause I don't need a club to tell me what I am and ain't.).

    But I myself am abstinent.


    You guys?


    Be immature and I'll rip your eyes out of their sockets.
    Or at least I'll imagine myself doing so.
    So before anyone bes immature -- Don't.
     
  2. FRuMMaGe

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    I think it is fine for people who have been raised into a religion and are told abstinence is the true path.

    However, to the people who are not corrupted by propaganda and lies, I think abstinence is unnatural, unnescesary (can't spell :lol: ) and a waste of one of the best feelings the body can experience.
     
  3. Brawny

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    Wow, don't need a school program for it....but yes, I agree...makes everything so much simpler. You don't have to worry about:

    Teen pregnancy (and abortion)
    STD's
    AIDS (yes, it deserves its own point)
    Emotional devastation (be it kids, break-ups..w/e)

    Edit @ frummage: because itchy genitals is THE best feeling evarrrr111one!!!!1111!11111
     
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    Would make life easier, but like hell anyone will obey it.
     
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    Well at my current state, I don't have to worry about anything :)
     
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    thats becuase their only gonna get it once and they no it so they take their shot at the only opritunity.................jk
     
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    well i just wanted to ask a few questions also... well im on the high school football team and i got a girlfreind right, and all the football guys have been "presurring" me... i think that she is really hot! and i love her personality and laugh and everything ive been goin out with her for like 8 months. i dont want it to be too fast or anything and i don't think i shouldbe doing those acts before i know she is the one... wut do you guys say go for it or wait it out?...
     
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    my view on this is that you have to test the car before you buy it. if ya catch my drift :ihih:

    but seriously, Abstinence isn't something I think i'll go with. i wont grow up to be a pornstar or anything and be all, "ZOMFG SEXZORZ NAO!SHIFT + 1!!!!1"
     
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    wait trust me.....just wait a month or until you have a backup girl just incase she dumps you.....
     
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    well u know i was thinkin of waitin like after mariige... man i feel so dumb talkin about this on a furom but i need answers i guess... sigh... =/
     
  11. Brawny

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    I like girls who are smarter than me, therefore, I shall always be abstinent not only from my choice directly, but my inherent choice indirectly.
     
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    I don't believe in the sanctity of marriage, therefore I don't believe in or practice abstinence.
    You can be sensible and careful about sex without waiting until you're married. Marriage is falsely sacred and of no importance. Sex is about passion, lust, intimacy, love, procreation...marriage isn't an integral component to ANY of those things, therefore I deem it completely unnecessary for the act.
     
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    Didn't follow a word of that.

    And Desi, I think you're awesome.
     
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    lol thx frogger.i dunno i just feel lost sometimes, and the guy who said who doesnt beleive in marrige i can agree to you... but in some peoples eyes (like me) we think that marrige is a true commitment, it means that you two are attached. mrrige means that you are ready to take any obsticles as a pair not single but other people think that marrige is a fraud and can see where u r comin from but its not like that to me...
     
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    First, I like smarter girls...most of them would then agree with me on my point of view...therefore, not only is my own choice keeping me abstinent, but her choice as well :)

    And I agree with 2 also..... Eh...I guess it comes down to...is sex "making love" or merely "f*cking".
     
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    Can't you tackle obstacles and be committed otherwise? Aren't you basically saying a relationship isn't "real" until marriage is in tact?
    Relationships should live on the principles of "marriage" whether you actually partake in that ceremony or not, IMO.
     
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    You can be committed without consummating a relationship...

    I depart from even more strict religious people who say people can't even live to gether...I think living together is a great idea.

    And your key word there is SHOULD..... If only should = do....

    IF every relationship did that, then I believe sex before marriage would be alright (even though you'd get married to that person anyway).....but we're sinful beings, and that's just a fantasy.

    People suck...the end.
     
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    Love is stupid, everyone thinks they've got the partner they're going to end up with forever and ever and ever like in the fairytales when it isn't. They take it for granted and rush things, basically.
     
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    I agree with Celeste on this one. If you love someone why should you have to have the marriage title before making love.
     
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    For sure, I just don't see what the point of that would be.

    I don't know, I guess sex just isn't that monumental, ultra taboo kind of a concept to me.
     

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