Pls help. I have added a friends code console number and he has added mine. His name is still grayed out and I can not select send a message. I just added my email address and receive an email in my inbox. I just replyed to it but have not checked the wii yet to see if my name turned black. I intered the console code yesterday. Why is it taking so long. I pass the internet connection test and can get on the wii store and shop. What's the deal and why can't you get any help from Nintendo???????