help wanted please

[WiiFan93]

when i add sum1 and they say they add me y is the name still grey and i cant send them messeges on my wii

 

[manufan15]

Maybe they lied and really didn't add you, or maybe one of you doesn't have internet connection.

 

[Battles]

you have to wait it takes some time for it to change turst me...

and that dont work they didt add you yet