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Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by CantGetAWii, Jun 15, 2007.

  1. CantGetAWii

    CantGetAWii WiiChat Member

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    Well I have a little problem here. There is a girl at my school, who I find to be very attractive. I don't really know her, and I haven't really talked with her before. Thats the problem, because with my past girlfriends, it was a lot easier for me, because I knew them pretty good before going out with them.

    So basically I guess I need help with how to approach girls in this kind of situation, and I need to know the tell tale signs when a girl likes you, that would help me out a bit. I only have two full school days left, then exams, so I don't have much time at all, but id like to get something done soon. It's only been recently that i'm starting to see her everywhere I go at school (outside & inside of it), which is kind of odd to me, because i've never seen her this much before. We exchange glances in the hall sometimes, and my friends have told me that she's looked back at me a few times, but I never believe them.

    I am 16, and I'm just hoping she does not care that I haven't pursued this yet.

    Im hoping guys and girls on wiichat have some usefull advice for me, I'll be waiting..
     
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  2. Gymdawg

    Gymdawg ~I Spy Hypocricy~

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    How old are you? Obviously, your options would be severely altered depending on whether you're 12 or 18.

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    Nevermind, how'd I miss that?
     
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  3. just say hi its that simple unless shes one of those unapproachable types. just strike up a conversation. say “oh you and i both take the same gym class. what do ya think of the teacher?” just something to break the ice. then when you have the attention ask her to a movie or grab a slice of pizza.

    that's the best thing truely and you won't be laughed at either :yesnod:

    eta- gymdawg he wrote that he's 16
     
  4. Gymdawg

    Gymdawg ~I Spy Hypocricy~

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    Wow, I can't believe I didn't see that.
     
  5. Frogger

    Frogger God Complex

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    ...This'll sound a bit gay but somehow get her MSN address and pretend you thought it was someone else and just never stop talking to her...

    Or say hi, xD;
     
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  6. Brawny

    Brawny Anglophobiphile

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    Yep, the girls have it. Just. say. hi.

    What's the worst that could happen?

    meh, tried to find how I got Jill's msn/aim.... Ah well. Woulda been funny, I can tell ya that.

    Edit: LMAO....I was called an asshat...the first words out of her mouth, and look how that turned out. :p
     
  7. CCScandalus

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    let her play with your wii
     
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  8. King Wiired

    King Wiired HITLER ME JEZ

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    Practically what I was gonna say, EXCEPT the 'pretend you thought it was something else' crap :p that's just les cheessssy :] just get her MSN and talk to her, if things go well, see her in person and be like zOMG I speak to you on MSN :eek: then if you can't think of conversation, you can use conversations that you had over MSN, to give you an excuse to speak to her. Or just wait til she's alone one day to say 'Hi,' though going on from there isn't exactly easy to a girl you don't know - especially 'cause you're 16 and going to the same school.
     
  9. Sovieto

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    lmao, this isnt the 80s jill... -_-

    this is how i usually approach girls: you, me, dairy queen, be there, or be square, hoe! Aways works.
     
  10. sherwood3570

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    How hot is this girl? Which celeb could you compare her to? You have to figure out her standards before approaching a "more than friends" relationship with her. Since you posted this comment at 5 yesterday, I would assume that you have today and tomarrow. Hell, find out where she hangs out, not in a stalking fashion. Heres how I dated on of the most gorgeuous girls in highschool...I just took a liking to one of her attractive friends, and hung out with them. I was funny, smart, and outgoing. It really all depends on the type of girl she is. Some girls like to have pressure put on them, like randomly sitting down at a lunch table next to her...some girls definitely do not, some like smart asses. Don't show that you are smarter than her...if you are. Most girls don't like to look dumb.

    Blah, I might have seemed mean...I wasn't trying to be, nor do I know everything about getting a girl...just sharing my advice.

    Edit: I may not be caught up on relationship code anymore. After I broke up with my gf in 10th grade after 4 years, a lot of people looked at me as a player...I'm currently 19 now and I'm in a wonderful relationship with my current girlfriend.
     
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  11. The Fifth

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    Think about how in teen high school movies the guys with the hottest girls are the ones that are the most confident. If you look like you are scared they will read that in an instant. I wish I had had the confidence I do now when I was in high school.
    The biggest trouble guys have is walking around with this "teleprompter" on their foreheads" That says "I'm desperate". Girls can read that from across the room, club, whatever. Why do you think married men get so much play and women hitting on them? It's because they are not looking for someone. Hence no "teleprompter". Confidence man confidence.

    And take really good care of yourself. Chicks dig the well groomed healthy guys. Unless she is a goth or skater girl. Etc.
     
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  12. King Wiired

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    Lmao, wow, that's how I get my beauties too :eek:

    Or just slap their arse and say 'are you jamaican? 'cause you're ja-making me crazy.' I'm known around these parts due to my utter charm.
     
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    See that is confidence as the response could be she gets pissed or she is totally responsive.
     
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    LMFAO..if ya got a boat, just ask her if she wants a ride....or watch ya wakeboard. Those ladays love to sunbath on the boat.

    Hm.... and DON'T go to a movie....it's the stupiest thing you can possibly do. lol.
     
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    You wanna know how to bag a classy lady? Just give her 2 tickets to the gun show!

    Tell her that there is a party in your pants, and that she is invited...
     
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    Ah... Bribery.
     
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    Scream President of NO MA'AM

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    Of course, being the ladies man that I am, I will offer some excellent advice. Just remember to have your cool guy face on. Then you must go up to her in person and say any of the following pick up lines:

    You've made me so nervous that I've totally forgotten forgotten my standard pick-up line.

    Are you accepting applications for your fan club?

    There's this movie I wanted to see and my mom said I couldn't go by myself.....

    I'm bigger and better than the Titanic..... only 200 woman went down on the Titanic

    Hi, I'm foreign. I've got Russian hands and Roman fingers.

    If I pet you, would you follow me home?

    Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?

    You see my friend over there? [Point to friend who sheepishly waves from afar] He wants to know if YOU think I'M cute.

    Do you have a boyfriend? No. Want one?(if yes: Want another one?)

    (give the person a bottle of tequila) Drink this, then call me when you're ready.

    I bet you $20 you're gonna turn me down

    All this could be yours for one low, low price!

    So, do you like fat guys with no money?

    Can I buy you a drink or do you just want the money?

    Wanna play army? I'll lie down and you can blow the hell outta me.

    Do you have flat mates? Will they mind me staying?

    Perhaps you don’t know me? My name is Mr Right.

    Would you like to dance with the greatest dancer in the world? So would I, let’s go to the dance floor together to try and find him.
     
  18. surfinrach90

    surfinrach90 I GOT A JAR OF DIRT.

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    Wiired that was succeed with me, provided you waved your arms in the air like a fool when you say 'crazy' :yesnod:

    And to help, be yourself. I think that's soooo important, just be yourself =]

    And relax, and just go talk to her, strike up a convo about anything and just chat :)
     
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    Most retarded pickup line evarrrr...

    "How much does a polar bear weigh?"

    "enough to break the ice.. hi my name is_____"

    hhaahah.
     
  20. MztikalAce

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    Ok, just randomly chat to her on the streets or at school, very easy to engage in a small little conversation, like hey girl, how ya doin >.>, keep her chatting then invite her to join you for a bite to eat, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE MONEY, say its on you and she'll order(lol no girls ive told have made me spend big on dinner except some girlfriends who i had to take to a restaurant >.> and buy some pretty expensive jewlerry.

    Well after a while, you should still be talking and well ask for her number, she'll say yes no way she would turn you down if your from school and see her everyday.

    Then when you get home wait till next day or the night and text her, then when you get enough confidence and know her well, ask her out.

    And never slap a girl on the ass randomly on the street lol or in school >.> my mate got suspended for that XD. Only time i would say slap a random girl on the ass is in a club and meh your 16 lol dont need to know about that unless you can get in with facial hair like me :p(when i was under 18) or with a fake id like some of my mates.
     

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