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i cant talk to girls that good......

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  1. Wii_BrEnDo2007

    Wii_BrEnDo2007 Gran Turismo

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    ok i am 13 yrs old and I love talking'll but that changes when its a girl. I just cant look them in the eye and talk because i think they will think i am hitting on the. any ideas that could help me? cause valentine's day is round the corner
     
  2. DBloke

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    Shy maybe
    Try to find something you both like
     
  3. Deathmetalmaster

    Deathmetalmaster WiiChat Member

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    flowers dude. girls are suckers for flowers. Another thing, reverse psychology works really well on girls that age..............well, it did when I was 13. haaaaaaaaaaaaa..........yeah
     
  4. Wii_BrEnDo2007

    Wii_BrEnDo2007 Gran Turismo

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    its like girls in general though
     
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    I dont tend to talk mutch in person anyway
     
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    Kamikaze Certified Public Asshole

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    The reason you seem to be so shy is that everytime you're speaking with someone of the opposite sex, you're assuming that it's an attempt for a hit on or something. Just be friendly and casual, if you tend to be fake and obnoxious, they will see that. If you have someone in your mind for Valentine's Day and are just too shy to approach them, write them a romantic letter/poem with their name attached, but make an alias for yourself.
     
  7. chain blade

    chain blade I love my wii!!!

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    Hahahaha u cant talk to girls!!:lol: Even though i dont like girls as G.Fs i can still talk.Mabey u should try to be funny i am and i can talk to dem!
     
  8. Byuakuya

    Byuakuya Bleach & Heroes fan.

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    just behave as if everything is cool. make them work for it, thats my moto, unless its a girl i really realy like in which case i make the first move.
     
  9. elmo_999

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    if its a girl in general just pretend its one of your guy friends, treat them as an equal. i cant help you with the "girl you like thing" either cuz i suck at that lmao
     
  10. LordofGoron

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    Show them your inermost hatrid...works for me.
     
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    swanson teh one n only danswanson

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    become freinds, then hit on em, trust me ive had atleast 100 gf;s this school year
     
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    before or after u get punched in the face? lol
     
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    Gaz Poker Face :D

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    woow that makes me sooooo jealous, not!!

    man dude your 13 years old, why do you care?
     
  14. WiiWouldLike2Play

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    okay.. hmm.. lets see.. just be normal..

    pretend their guys? o_O.. well.. maybe not like that.. but just talk to them.. what do you guys have in common? ask questions like "how are yah".. or if you're having trouble asking girls out.. just say like "hey.. im going to the movies this [[whenever]] and i was just wondering if you would like to go with me?" or write a note to her.. hah. if you can talk to girls your age on the internet.. im sure you can talk to them in real life.. you just needa break out of your shell and just be 'krzy' xD like me.. just get used to it :) see, im a 13 yrs. old girl.. and im shyy sometimes.. like when i meet some very cute guy.. im in that way to.. but all you gotta do is just say Hi, im _______! lol.. and then carry on with the whole conversation! it'll work.. trust me. i do it all the time :prrr:
    this is what you do..

    .o1 say Hi..
    .o2 then see what she's into.. [type of music, hobbies, subject in school, etc.]
    .o3 when you're done talking.. say something like this "anyway, i really enjoyed talking to you.. maybe ill see yah later?" or something.. make sure its not corny. lol yah know? just act cool! ...but not too cool to be someone your not. be yourself.. and be calm about it.
    :] hope i helped? lol


    SO, good luck, and just have fun! you shouldnt be worrying right now. your just 13.. you still have a long way too go! :] just like me. lol
     
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  15. rwhit_2007

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    Practice my friend.

    Start to make sure every time you speak with a girl you start off by looking them in the eyes (where are your eyes by the way if not looking at their eyes!). Even if it's only for a few seconds at first just start to get used to it. Then over time it WILL become easier and easier. The longer you wait to do this the harder it will be as you get older.

    Many people will just assume you are dishonest if you won't look them in the eyes. You don't want to give people a death stare, but you should be able to comfortably look them in the eyes.

    Girls will also assume you are not interested in them if you don't look them in the eye. Have you ever spoken with someone who looks everywhere but at you while you talk - often you think they are bored and don't care what you have to say.

    Again, it's all about practice. Start small and every time you speak with a girl (or anyone) be sure to at least start off by looking them in the eye. Make it a conscious effort every time and it WILL get easier.
     
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    If your having trouble, ask somebody, if your still having trouble, don't worry about it.

    Your 13, you don't even need a girlfriend. Young relationships (16 and below) end up failing in one week anyway.
     
  17. rodent

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    ok, i honestly have no right 2 be giving advice, as my first relationship in quite a while totally sucks right now, but heres what worked 4 me:

    1.)pretend there your sister
    2.)pretend your gay
    3.)once you become friends with them, wait a little while, and then ask them "out of curiosity, would you ever go out with me?" if they say yes, wait a little longer and then ask them out. if they say no, say "ok, friends then?"

    thats all the advice i have 2 give, but now i need some advice:

    im 14. how do i meet girls? i mean, seriously all my friends that r girls r more like sisters, or going out with my friends. i mean if i could meet girls im sure i could ask them out, but how do i meet them?

    im pretty desperate; i resorted 2 going 2 church, and IM NOT EVEN CHRISTIAN!!

    please reply
     
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    PRESS A!!! PRESSSSS A!!!!

    but if you must use cheats for mega bonuses press: Up, Up, Down, A, B, X, Left
     
  19. Bulldogxx831

    Bulldogxx831 Boredom at it's best

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    LMAO Thats one way to do it.

    But seriously mang all you knead to do is bee funny. As long as ur decent looking all you need is da funny jean. Just look up some jokes off the net to get you started and comfortable and then all u need to do is go with the flow. If you get far.....


    THENN I WANT PICS

    good luck
     
  20. Brand Nubian

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    i have the smae prob
     
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