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  1. Mau

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    like the titles says....

    and if you do not want to read the whole story, but still want to help, jump that big paragraph.

    now this is the story:

    my mom lived here in the US with my little brother and sister, I lived in Colombia. I came from colombia when I was 17 years old, and started living with my brother and sister. during the first year, my mom split up with my stepdad (my brother and sister father). somehow, they came back together, but shortly after that they were separated again. my mom left home and I stayed with my brother, sister and stepdad. And to be honest he is a cool guy. ok anyways... I lived in port charlotte at that time. I graduated highschool there and then came to miami for vacation with a friend that came to visit me from colombia. when I came back home, my brother, sister and stepdad, were gone. my mom came for me and took me with her to texas. her logic was to be in the middle of the country to see were she locates my brother and sister. about 6 month later she founds them in oklahoma. she tells Bruce (stepdad) that she just wanted to see the kids, he believes her and we went to oklahoma and pretty much came back with the kids. then my mom had a brain anorysm, almost dying, and I had to maintain, pretty much the family for about 3 month. then when my mom got better we moved to miami. for about 6 month I had been having fights with my mom because she wanted me to support the whole family, me, without even having papers... she did it for those 6 months... I was working from 12 to 15 hours a day to survive. then I just move out, I couldn't take it anymore, I care a lot about my brother and sister, but I was not studying, or doing anything to move up. I was just going down in live. I was 21 years old, without papers and pretty much working for pennys. When I moved out everything started to change for to better, but my mom called Bruce, he came to miami supposely to live with my mom and the kids (yeah right) about a month later, he took the kids.... I am been looking for them since them, I have bought some people finders things for 50 bucks but no good results. He is not publishing his adress.





    What I got so far, I think, is that they are in dodge city, kansas, If someone goes to dodge city high or middle school, you can help me the most.

    now this is the information: my brother's name is Ricky D. Bennett he should be 16 years old and my sister's is Laura D. bennet, she should be 14 years old. their father's name is Bruce Dewayne Bennet, he is around 41 years old.

    I have tried myspace, reunion, searching, the detective things for searching people online. Can't get a good hit.

    please, please, if anyone thinks I should try something, it can't hurt not to find them. It will hurt if I don't try it.

    to all in advance and for taking time to reading this thank you.


    Edit: Update!!!

    Just got a page made by my sister, 5 months ago in there she says she is living in spiro, oklahoma, if anyone goes to spiro highschool, please let me know. but not sure if this is a good lead
     
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  2. Happy

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    Do you know what type of work your stepdad does?
     
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    So you left home and your step dad came back and stole your brothers and sisters? Then wouldn't your mom no were there at?
     
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    go to the city you think they are in, and ask around. th computer can only get you so far. You need to ctually venture out and find them. call all the schools in the area and ask them if your bro/sister are attending.

    Go to the police, and see if they can help you out there too.

    I have alot of sympathy for your problem, hope it all goes well.
     
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  5. Mau

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    he was or is a millwright


    I called the schools, no hits, police, can't do anything since I am not their guardian, they would not help me. My mom, had to go back to Colombia since she had the anoerism, she cannot live by herself, or work. she does not know where they are.
     
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    wow really sad story, sorry but i can't help but i wish you the best of luck
     
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    The best thing to do is go out to the city, as ottoman said, but then tell your story to a newspaper or something and put up flyers, anything to get the public to see.
     
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  8. Sovieto

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    go to that city and look in the city records of people living there or something...
     
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    I live in Kansas, ill see what I can do for you Mau. I think were going to Dodge City, but if not, I can go by myself. There has been some seriously violent weather the past few days, (tornadoes, floods, etc) so it may take a while, but ill search the school student records. If I dont find anything, ill let you know.
     
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    but if you do find something you wont let her know?:lol:

    no on a serious note i think if you really did that, that that would be awesome
    woah, triple that
     
  11. Mau

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    thanks a lot!!!! wow, this is great, I got no words to thank you enough.

    [​IMG]

    I'll be waiting :D

    once again thank you!! :D
     
  12. jeez im at a lost for words right now....sounds like you have alot on your plate....

    you cant seem to locate him from family members? no one knows your siblings where abouts? why wont a detective help you????

    when i go to work tonight ill check the missing childrens reports and see what i can dig up. ill do some computer work.....there has to be something on record birth certificate, Social ANYTHING at this point

    if i can get a physical address through my work computer, i will let you know.

    if you have a physical description of him too it would help along with first and last name. :(

    im so sorry that all this is happening to you. anything i can do to help
     
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    Call the police and report a kidnaping or missing person.
     
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    I can't because they were taken by their father... it is not consider kidnaping. And I cannot file for a missing person, since they are with their father. My mom left to Colombia a little after the cops told her they cannot do anything for her, since the other parent took them. that she would of have to take it to court, and with her condition, that is just dangerous, she cannot get stressed. And because I am not their guardian, I cannot do anything with cops, or at least they did not wanted to help me. One day I assisted the city commisioner in my workplace and he told me if anything I need to contact him, I did and then someone else called me, but once again, he never did nothing for me...
     
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    :( i wish i could help you! Your best bet right now is jill.
     
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    call the police and tell local newspapers etc and maybe come to opera she can help you lol no i am kidding but use my advise and tell newspapers and the police
     
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  17. Mau

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    if I am doing that, I will probably need someone to help me with the grammar, since English is my second language, and maybe elaborate a little more into the story, since I didn't wanted to do it long so people don't get bored reading it or just too much to read.
     
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    Would't your mom know where they went? i thought your step dad stayed with them a little while before he moved again.

    And wouldn't your brother and sister try to contact you? they know where you live dont they?
     
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    There are lots of people on this forum with good english skills. Well, you could find someone who speaks your first language and english fluently or gather someone to fix your story.

    What is your first language?
     
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    I really hope there is a good outcome at least you have a Wii right lol jk that was mean anyway your typing seems fine but if it's speaking I'm sure you could have a translater
     
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