Currently the time between sending a second PM to someone is 60 seconds. Can we make it 30? Its really a pain in the ass to have a conversation with someone who is online at the same time and you keep seeing the error message to wait 16 more seconds.
I don't feel comfortable asking for the IM name of someone I don't know that well. Besides that I keep trillian or adium in invisible mode so they wouldn't know when to message me in the first place
ciper do what i do, i have it set up where i have to add someone to my buddy list inorder for them to IM me. otherwise no one can contact me. also i do the same thing from time to time, i go invisible so i cant be bothered with some people. i havent done it in a while because no one has annoyed me.