the official confession booth... deep dark secrets

[anax4aero]

I would think so. It's what she wants to do. If I remember, you're the drinker and the smoker. If someone forced you to stop them, you wouldn't be a happy bunny. Just like if your parents baby you. It's just exactly what you're doing to her. Other people may not agree with it, but if they're happy, then let them do whatever they want.

You can look out for her if you're a total saint of a brother though. Maybe she'd regard your opinion a lot more. Though I like you quite a bit. It just depends on whether you're going to fight every person who wants to go out with her.

^ agreed. Sometimes when you overprotect someone the results are worse, since they lash out or do really stupid things to establish their autonomy. I've seen this happen to a lot of people I know.

 

[Bodine]

I would think so. It's what she wants to do. If I remember, you're the drinker and the smoker. If someone forced you to stop them, you wouldn't be a happy bunny. Just like if your parents baby you. It's just exactly what you're doing to her. Other people may not agree with it, but if they're happy, then let them do whatever they want.

You can look out for her if you're a total saint of a brother though. Maybe she'd regard your opinion a lot more. Though I like you quite a bit. It just depends on whether you're going to fight every person who wants to go out with her.

Well it's because I have another sister who is older than the her and made a lot of mistakes that she has to pay for now and I don't want to see the younger one go through the same ordeal.

 

[anax4aero]

Well it's because I have another sister who is older than the her and made a lot of mistakes that she has to pay for now and I don't want to see the younger one go through the same ordeal.

If she didn't learn from her sister's example, then it means she still has to learn a lesson. And sometimes experience, even bad experiences, are necessary to learn.
At the most you can advise her and make things clear to her, just be there so she can't make mistakes out of lack of information or support. But in the end it's her life, and she must learn to make her own decisions.

 

[Fox]

There was a fire at a certain place recently. A certain scurvy foxxy fella was involved...
>.>
<.<

 

[Shadowking]

Wrong.

Then I guess you're just ignorant. Also a shame.

I have impulses to cut myself (no im not a troll). It actually makes me feel better as i can handle the physical pain rather than the emotional side of it. I dont let people know this in fear of judgement. I put up barrier around me so that people think that everything is ok, but it really isnt. I know its bad, but i continue to do it.
Help?

Try finding other ways to vent your emotions. One thing I've tried is buying a punching bag and using up all of my energy on that when I'm upset. Problem there is I have the extra energy because of my ADHD, and I never actually got to the point of cutting myself, so it may not work for you. I'll talk to my girlfriend to see if she has any alternative solutions.

i used to hurt myself when i was depresseses or pissed off. then i began smoking weed. problem is w/ out being w/ friends while doing it wont help much. what u need is a way to vent.get urself into some jiu jitsu and make friends doing it. i used to do it as much as 8 hours a day. its great cause u still get to vent and get rid of anger w/ urself and other ppl.

You're not only encouraging people to smoke weed, but also to FORCE others to smoke it as well?!? *facepalm*

The weed also seems to have affected your typing abilities...

 

[Chewy]

You're not only encouraging people to smoke weed, but also to FORCE others to smoke it as well?!? *facepalm*

The weed also seems to have affected your typing abilities...

You completely misinterpreted his post.

Jiu Jitsu is a form of martial arts, not a type of weed.

Your sobriety seems to have affected your reading abilities :lol:

 

[redneck E]

I drink and smoke to much

 

[Dorkfish]

I understand being ultra conservative and super liberal, but sometimes it comes to a point where nothing you say makes any sense at all.

 

[Shadowking]

You completely misinterpreted his post.

Jiu Jitsu is a form of martial arts, not a type of weed.

Your sobriety seems to have affected your reading abilities :lol:

Lol, not my reading abilities so much as my comprehensive abilities apparently. I thought he was trying to say people should smoke in groups instead of alone XP My bad

 

[wario2ooo]

- Im always depresssed and mask it up with a fake smile everyday and none of my friends know about it...

- I been having a secret crush on my friend of 5 years...

- I love Love Hina.

- I like to get shocked when I get really depressed while no one is home

- I stole 500 bucks from my brother's wallet and told him that I didnt

- I rarely eat tacos

o.o

 

[gidget]

is your friend female?

 

[DBloke]

- Im always depresssed and mask it up with a fake smile everyday and none of my friends know about it...
- I like to get shocked when I get really depressed while no one is home

You need a entertaining pet

- I love Love Hina.

Now that is depressing (Makoto aside)

 

[GCommander]

I watch porn. Girl on Girl. Girls doing stuff to themselves. I don't try to look at guy with girl.
Favorite porn stars: Lisa Ann, Sandee Westgate, Ava Devine.

P.S: Look them up.

 

[wario2ooo]

is your friend female?

Yesh...a pretty cute one too. Small, asian, acts like a cat and dreams to be a neko...how cute xD

@ DarkPrinny - My entertainment was games and still is

 

[Skorp]

I..... like big butts and I cannot lie...