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Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by surfinrach90, Feb 14, 2007.

  1. surfinrach90

    surfinrach90 I GOT A JAR OF DIRT.

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    Okay so.. often ya see teenagers in love and the older generation will go 'it's just puppy love'.

    So what with it being Valentines Day and all I was wondering what your opinions were on this. Do you think they can be? Do you think that they just 'think' their in love and they wouldn't know because their too young?

    Personally I think they can be. Yes there are a lot of them that act although their in love and the relationship will last about a week. But there are teenagers who can be in love for real. My aunt started seeing this guy when she was in like the first your of comp and they ended up getting married and being together for years.

    Yes I'm in a relationship that's been like anything else I've ever experienced and I to believe that I'm in love..well actually I know that I am, so I do think teenagers can be.
     
  2. En4Neo

    En4Neo Jet-Set-Jesse

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    I've had a girlfriend for awhile now, but I wouldn't say we've gotten as far as the love level. I really just think the majority of kids like to call it love, but really are in love with idea rather than the person because most of them split too easily...and love doesn't just quit itself so easily.
     
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  3. kiraownsurmom

    kiraownsurmom Man Points: Over 9000

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    i h8 da holiday all 2gether 2 much love aint my bag..noone likes me anyway
     
  4. bubba-ga-nush

    bubba-ga-nush Im on more than you think

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    Yes the holiday is stupid. But teenagers can be in love. But most are just in..well..im gonnna call it a emotionless relation ship....naa that doesnt make much sense but you know what i mean. My sister has been going out wit this guy since she was in grade 11 and there gonna get married soon. She's 23.
     
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    i think the younger teenagers don't have the maturity to understand what love is, i was in love, and you know when you are, it's a crazy thing, and you sure miss it.
     
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    Yeah I agree completely.
    Some teens are just lovinfor lovin.
    That way the change that.
     
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    i thought i was in love once...but than i realized my race reproduced by spore clouds
     
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    ironicly i think "i was born to love you" by queen is a good song
     
  9. ~Marisa~

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    I think it completely depends on the people in love and that it's entirely unfair for older people to judge a couple just simply because of their age.


    That being said...I know there are many immature young couples who don't necessarily understand how to handle a relationship properly, but it doesn't mean they're not worthy of trying.

    I believe everyone has a different view on what love is and being so, nobody has the right to tell a couple if they're truly in love or not. In fact, I have met many younger couples who act more mature than couples who have been married for 20 years. I've seen teen couples treat eachother better than a middle-aged couple during a fight (Example: they don't put eachother down and speak with caution not to hurt their loved one)

    To me...

    Love is based only on one's inner-self. There are so many different types of love, so it'd be unfair for people to judge everyone and put things in a black and white way; which most of us know, love is and life is definantly multi-colored and not as simple as black and white. I also believe in meant-to-bes. The connection between two human beings can be so strong that it creates an actual force in which they pull toward one another. It's unexplainable but very real. Some people just connect, they spark and they soak up eachother's energy like a thirsty flower on a hot summer day. This energy knows no age, connecting with another soul knows no age, love knows no age - it just is and always will be. Some things just are, and this is one of them. There doesn't always need to be a reason for everything. Sometimes the reason for the reason is as simple as simplicity - in other words - some things just are and that's the only reason that is needed.


    The definition of love to me:



    Is that there is no definition. Sometimes there are things in this world that are so great, so wonderful that we as humans cannot understand them. It's hard for us to accept concepts of things that are eternal - especially things we can't see. I believe that people should stop worrying so much on WHAT love is and trying to figure out how to explain it but rather they should feel it instead. Love is something you must feel and not everything in the world must be clouded with constant talking and explaining like some may believe is necessary but is truly very pointless. Us as humans get confused and our confusion leads to frustration, which in turn, forces us to want to know an answer to everything. The moment one finds themselves speechless and flustered because they love another so much but can't find the words - have in fact, found the exact words.


    There are other languages in which to explain things in this world. No, I don't mean Japanese, Korean, English, Spanish etc....

    What I mean is the language of the spirit and soul....and within this language is what I like to call.....................




    The language of LOVE.
     
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    Any relationships before 19 are pointless.
     
  11. surfinrach90

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    I wouldn't agree with you there, I know a guy who's 18 and has been with his girlfriend for four years and they are very much still in love, so yeah..a four year relationship can't be 'pointless'
     
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    i know people that were 18, met, were so madly in love with each other, they got married 5 months later. they make such a good couple.
     
  13. surfinrach90

    surfinrach90 I GOT A JAR OF DIRT.

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    Woah.. marrying after 5 months is a bit of a rush lol! But if they are happy and in love then hey..what the heck.. how long have they been together for now?
     
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    Puppy love is ok
    Its just when its younger than 16 it becomes Pedo love then that person is hated by every one

    But there is also mony love when someone marrys some one just for there money (Anna nicol smith anyone)
     
  15. En4Neo

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    My friend's sister is getting married to some guy from some south american country in a week whom she's only known for a month. So yeah.....

    I think if you're really in love you can wait it out, too much love at one time can spoil a relationship.
     
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  16. surfinrach90

    surfinrach90 I GOT A JAR OF DIRT.

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    Yup yup, true love lasts a life time, why rush.
     
  17. Rabid_Toaster

    Rabid_Toaster NOO! THE BEES ARE COMING!

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    i think that teens can be in love but lots of them aren't serious (i hate generalising)
     
  18. socalwii_grl87

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    as for me...i am a teenager. i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years...we have been together since i was 16. you cant really say when your inlove right their on the spot. when i was 16, the only thing i thought about was "wow, i really like spending time with this guy." their are trials in our relationship, but if you want to make somethin work...you have to work thing out....i think it depends on the people in the relationship...you either want it to be a fling or you think that you guys will be happy together...i dont know if that makes any sense...i dont think you can really explain what young love is...lol
     
  19. elmo_999

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    i remember middle school when all the kids discovered dating and would go through girlfriends monthly. its just BS. i'm in high school now and tons of kids are in love. you can tell. others are just dating others so they can be like "i have a GF/BF and you don't haha" this guy was makin fun of me cuz he had like 10 girlfriends in 3 years. i told him that hes a f*ckin loser and that girls must hate him if they brake up so fast. his face turned an embarrased red lol. I think young love can exist and does alot but then there's that other group that date any person just so they can jump on the bandwagon. i am personally just waiting for the right girl.
     
  20. Brawny

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    Yeah, just depends on the maturity of the person. There are irresponsible adults that no one cares about. There was this senior in my HS when I was a freshman. She was getting married at 18. She had dated this guy since 6th grade and they were engaged for a year. She was a fricken genius and was seriously more mature than the teacher.
     

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